The beginning of a relationship can be thrilling but puzzling.
How can you tell if a guy likes (or loves) you when he’s not saying it out loud?
It can be frustrating. But remember, actions speak louder than words.
If you want to understand what your guy is really feeling, this article is for you!
Keep reading for body language signs that reveal a man’s true feelings for you. Get ready to figure out if he’s truly interested.
Let’s get started!
1. Eye Contact
The eyes can tell you a lot.
If a man keeps looking into your eyes for a long time, it’s a sign he’s really into you.
Research shows that eye contact is intimate, so when he looks at you deeply without speaking, it could mean he’s in love. Especially if he looks at your eyes, nose, and lips.
But if he often avoids eye contact and looks away, it’s likely he’s not interested.
2. Dilated Pupils
This one’s interesting. Studies have shown that a man’s pupils can dilate, or get bigger, when he’s attracted to someone.
Pupil dilation isn’t easy to notice, but it gives you an idea of what’s going on in his mind. It’s like his brain’s way of showing he’s interested or excited about something.
So if you notice his pupils dilating when you’re around, it could be a subtle sign that he likes you.
3. Eyebrow Flash
When a man’s eyebrows raise as soon as they see you, it could mean he secretly likes you.
Pay close attention because eyebrow flashes are quick, usually lasting only about one-fifth of a second.
A man’s eyebrows might also lift suddenly to show he’s trying to get your attention or flirting with you.
4. Head Tilt
When a man tilts his head while talking to you, it’s a sign he’s interested and engaged.
If you see his head tilt while he maintains eye contact, it means he’s curious and really listening to you.
He wants you to know he’s paying full attention.
But if he starts lowering his head or looking around the room, it might mean he’s not interested.
5. Smiling
When a man smiles genuinely, especially if it reaches his eyes and feels warm, it shows he’s really into you.
If he can’t stop smiling when he’s around you, it’s a clear sign he likes you.
Look for those smiles that light up his whole face, not just his mouth. That usually means he’s feeling affectionate towards you.
6. Feet Position And Direction
Our feet can give away a lot about what we’re feeling without us even realizing it. They’re like secret messengers of our intentions.
If you’re trying to figure out if a man is interested in you, take a look at where his feet are pointing.
If his feet are pointed towards you when you’re talking, that’s a good sign. It shows he’s genuinely interested or attracted to you. It’s even better if both of his feet form a ‘V’ shape that encloses yours.
But if he’s turned towards you while his feet are pointing away or towards the exit, it might not be great news. It could mean he’s not really interested.
7. Frequent And Lingering Touches
When a man finds reasons to touch you, it says a lot. It’s a clear sign that he likes you a lot or might even be in love with you.
Does he sometimes brush against your arm or shoulder on purpose? Does he give you high-fives that last longer than usual?
Does he reach out and touch your arm, hand, leg, or back when you’re talking?
These are all signs that he wants to feel close to you, both physically and emotionally.
And if he hugs you, well, that’s a pretty obvious sign of affection, isn’t it?
8. Posture
Imagine this: Does your man keep a relaxed posture when he’s with you? Does he face you, with his hips pointing in your direction?
Are his shoulders relaxed, and his arms and hands not crossed? Does he often have his palms facing up when he talks to you?
Open body language shows that a man feels at ease around you and is ready to connect emotionally. It’s a sign that he wants to learn more about you.
But if he spends his time with crossed arms and legs, it might mean he’s not open to giving or receiving affection.
9. Leaning In
Do you notice if your man leans forward when you’re talking, like he’s trying to get closer to you?
Leaning in is a way he shows he’s curious, interested, and attracted to you without saying anything.
Watch for those moments when he leans in while you speak. It’s like he’s telling you, “I’m intrigued by you. I want to be near you. I want to know you better.”
It’s a sign that he’s not just interested in what you’re saying but in YOU.
But if you move closer and he leans away or creates space between you, it could mean he wants you to give him some room.
10. Mirroring
Do you want to know a subtle sign that indicates you and your man share a deeper connection than you realize?
Watch if you both sync up with each other’s gestures.
If you see that a man copies your body language, it means he’s really paying attention to you and trying to bond with you.
He might do this without even realizing it, mimicking your actions, gestures, or even your tone of voice – like scratching his head when you do, taking a drink at the same time, walking in sync, finishing each other’s sentences, and so on.
11. Fidgeting
Take a moment to consider this: Does a man act differently around you compared to how he behaves with his family, friends, and other people?
If he seems nervous and acts differently when he’s with you, it could mean he has strong feelings for you.
Watch out for specific behaviors like playing with his hands or feet, tapping his fingers, twirling his hair, or touching his neck.
If he does any of these things, it might indicate that he’s nervous or excited around you and he’s trying to hide his feelings.
12. Protective Gestures
It’s the small actions that matter. If you’re wondering if he’s starting to have feelings for you, pay attention to signs that he’s very protective of you.
Does he walk beside you at the same pace, adjusting to match yours? Does he make sure you’re safe when you’re out together?
Does he open doors for you or try to shield you from potential danger?
If you see him doing things like this to keep you safe and cared for, it’s a sign that he values you and wants to look out for you.
