Are you coming back from a date with someone you like?
That’s probably why you’re here, to see how it went!
You might be thinking, did they have a good time with me? It can be tricky to figure out how the other person feels, especially if you’ve just met…
But I’m here to HELP you with this list of 7 body language signs your date is into you!
Let’s get started with the first sign.
1. They Look At You A Lot
The first clue that your date likes you is when they look into your eyes a lot!
Yeah, yeah, you’ve probably heard this before!
But it’s true: it’s an easy way to see if someone is having a good time with you.
Imagine you’re chatting away, and your date just can’t stop staring at you. You might wonder, “Is it because of my cool outfit?” Maybe that’s part of it, or maybe they’re just really interested in you. You might even notice their pupils get bigger!
Anyway, loads of eye contact means things are going well.
You probably noticed it right away — it’s pretty obvious!
2. They Touch You Often
It’s about THAT kind of touching, if that’s what you’re thinking…
It’s about those little accidental touches, like brushing against each other as you walk through a door, or when they put their hand on your back while waiting for the bus.
These are all signs that they’re interested in you!
If someone’s into you, they’ll want to be closer to you… but of course, they’ll need to be respectful about it. They might wait until the next date for a hug or a kiss!
After all, you’ve only just met!
And if they really like you, they’ll want to take things slow. If you notice your date initiating a lot of these touches, they’re not ready to let you go!
3. They Pay Close Attention When You Speak
Another clue that your date likes you is when they really listen to everything you say!
Let’s face it.
It’s tough to pretend to be interested in someone this much… if someone’s boring you, you’ll want to leave as soon as you can.
But not your date:
They actually want to hear everything about you, beyond what you’re telling them!
If you end up getting serious with this person, you’ll want to have lots to chat about. That’s why this is also a sign that you’ll get along great!
4. They Lean In When You’re Talking
Here’s a big one: if your date is having a good time with you, they’ll lean towards you – or wherever you’re facing – to feel more involved.
But keep in mind, this is usually more of a natural thing than something they do on purpose.
Most of the time, at least!
While some relationship coaches advise people to lean forward to show interest, your date is probably doing it without even thinking.
Actually, it’s often a sign that their subconscious mind is saying they’re “attracted” to you!
Pretty cool, right?
So, if you notice your date getting closer to you or facing you directly, it’s a good sign they want to be closer!
Read: 10 Unfortunate Signs He Is Seeing Someone Else
5. They Try To Make You Smile Or Giggle
Another way they show they’re interested is by trying to make you laugh. A lot.
You might be wondering: how does this show in their body language? Because making you laugh is more about talking.
But let’s explain…
If your date’s been showing the signs I mentioned earlier, this is like the cherry on top!
It’s easier to connect with you if they’re making eye contact, listening closely, AND leaning towards you. That’s why making you laugh is a sign they’re interested: it means they care about your reaction.
This is how you can tell your date likes you. They’re starting to really care.
6. They Seem A Bit Nervous Or Unsure
While most body language signs that indicate your date likes you are easy to see, this one might be a bit tricky.
Remember, your date can feel awkward, even if they really like you!
If someone’s attracted to you – more than they thought they would be – they might find themselves stumbling over their words.
They might even turn away from you sometimes.
But this doesn’t always mean something bad…
Here’s some advice: Consider if they’ve shown other signs of interest. As mentioned earlier, they give you lots of eye contact and try to make you laugh…
Maybe it’s only later in the date that they start feeling awkward and seem more shy than before! It could be because they’ve realized how much they like you and they’re trying hard not to show it. At least, not just yet…
7. They Copy Your Actions Or Gestures
You’ve probably heard the saying that couples start to look alike over time!
But have you ever heard about mirroring in psychology?
It’s a similar idea.
When your date mirrors you, it’s because they want to show that you’re connected…
If your date starts copying your actions – like tapping on the desk when you do – they’re trying to show that you two are alike in some way.
And that’s why you’re “good together”!
Pretty cool, right?
Again, this is a subconscious way of showing interest!
But it’s a real sign, even if they’re not doing it on purpose…
Wrapping Up
You’ve just met someone really special on a date and you’re excited to see them again. But you’re not sure if they’ll call…
Don’t worry, though.
If they’ve shown the signs mentioned here, you can expect to hear from them and maybe even move forward in your relationship!