Have you ever had a guy come up to you and talk about the positive energy or aura you seem to have? But what does it really mean when a guy says you have good vibes?
We’ll answer all these questions and give you some tips on how to respond in these situations.
Let’s get started!
Understanding Body Language:
First, let me explain how it all works.
People can sense a variety of vibes or energies when they meet others or build relationships.
Some might feel a strong chemistry, often because of pheromones, which can create a subconscious attraction. Others might feel a desire for intimacy, often called lust.
Then there are those who sense a spiritual connection, feeling deeply connected on both an emotional and a more profound level with someone else.
The energy you give off tends to attract similar energy back to you.
So, when a guy tells you that you have good vibes, it can mean different things to different people. Here’s what you should know:
1. He Wants to Be Your Friend
Sometimes, we read too much into what a guy does. When a guy says you have good vibes, he might just see you as friend material. To him, you may come across as warm, friendly, and easy to talk to, and he wants to be your friend.
What to do:
If you’re aware that he’s interested in someone else or has made it clear he just wants to be friends, be thankful.
Keep in mind that many strong relationships start with friendship.
So, don’t cut ties too soon!
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2. He Likes You
When a guy tells you that you have good vibes, it means he finds you and your personality appealing. If you’ve seen “The Secret,” you’ll know that many experts believe in the law of attraction, which says that focusing your thoughts, words, and energy on what you want can bring it into your life.
This suggests that the universe responds to your thoughts and feelings.
Maybe you’re looking for someone to spend time with that day, or perhaps you’re hoping to meet someone new after ending a long-term relationship.
The energy you give off attracts people to you. It’s similar to sensing the tension when two people are arguing.
Whatever your situation, the law of attraction is at work, and it affects everyone.
In this case, if you’re looking for a companion, the guy might be picking up on your desires and responding to them.
What to do:
Think about whether you like him and if you could see a future together.
If you’re interested and he asks you out, why not go for it and see where things go?
It could be your lucky break — or maybe not.
3. He Thinks You Like Him
Men and women both flirt.
Often, men flirt with women they think are interested in them. In fact, some men try to connect with you on a deeper level, making it easier for them to start a conversation.
So, when a guy says you have good vibes, he’s probably trying to do more than just casual flirting. Don’t worry if this happens.
What to do:
James, a dating and relationship coach, has come up with a set of phrases designed to make a man fall in love with you.
These phrases work because they connect with men on a deep, instinctive level, which helps keep their interest. Many women aren’t aware of these techniques, which might make it hard for them to keep a man interested.
To learn about these phrases, you can watch his video where he explains everything.
4. He Wants to Sleep with You
It’s hard to accept, but some guys are looking for serious relationships, while others just want something casual. So, when a guy tells you that you have good vibes, it might mean he’s only interested in hooking up.
He might have been checking you out for a while, admiring you from a distance.
You’ll see the signs — he might have a mischievous glint in his eyes, a naughty grin, and he might touch your hand or hair now and then.
Men and women give off pheromones with their natural body scents. These pheromones come from urine, sweat, and other body fluids, attracting the opposite sex.
The catch is that women are found to be more attractive during ovulation.
What to do:
There are two possible outcomes:
- If you’re feeling the same sexual attraction toward him, you can flirt back a bit.
- If it makes you uncomfortable (which most girls can sense right away), you can leave
But most of the time, you’re probably just overthinking it…
5. He’s Just Complimenting You
It’s important to understand that not every guy is only thinking about sex or romance.
When a man tells you that you have good vibes, he might just be giving you a genuine compliment with no hidden agenda.
What to do:
The easiest and most friendly response you can give is a smile and a simple “Thank you.”
If you’re comfortable with him, you can explain what his compliment means to you. If it seems like he’s flirting, you can mention how it made you feel happy or a little embarrassed.
But remember, sometimes a compliment can come with hidden expectations.
6. He Needs Something from You
Women really like compliments, especially when it’s something we want to hear.
When a guy tells you that you have good vibes, take a moment to listen to what he’s saying. He might be expecting something in return, like a favor or help.
Thankfully, we have intuition. We can pick up on things like body language, tone, and facial expressions, which helps us understand the true meaning behind what someone says.
What to do:
You can thank him for the compliment and think about your relationship with him. Listen to your gut feeling and try to understand why he’s complimenting you.
Ask yourself: How well do you know him?
Would you be willing to help him if he asked?
This way, you’ll be prepared to respond to him and know what to say next.
7. He is Inspired by You
One way men and women differ is how they communicate. Men usually say what they mean directly, while women might use both words and body language.
So, when a guy tells you that you have good vibes, pay attention to his eyes and how he says it to figure out if he means it.
What to do:
You can ask him, “How come?” or “What do you mean?” and see how he responds.
If a guy compliments your appearance, like your face or body, it’s common. But if he specifically mentions liking your vibes, it’s special.
This kind of compliment from a guy shows he sees something deeper in you and appreciates your personality and energy.
8. He Thinks You’re a Good Person
When a guy likes spending time with you, it might mean he sees something special in you.
If you’re naturally kind, you might not realize how you make people feel good, even if you’re not close to them. Basically, he likes your positive energy and vibe.
Your vibe affects how he thinks and behaves.
What to do:
Thank him for his words and keep doing whatever you were doing before.
9. You Remind Him of Someone Special
If a guy tells you that you give off good vibes and later says you remind him of someone he knows, there could be a few possibilities:
- That person is a family member.
- That person is an ex-girlfriend (or ex-wife!).
- That person is someone he feels he missed out on.
You can ask him who it is, but remember: he might say it’s his sister, mom, or niece. But the fact that he mentioned someone he knows suggests they might have a deep connection.
What to do:
Just chat with him casually. If your relationship goes further, it’s good to know he likes you for you, not because you remind him of someone else.
10. He’s in Love with You
You can feel a spiritual connection with a guy you just met or someone you’ve known forever.
When a guy tells you that you have good vibes, it means he might have fallen in love with you instantly or has liked you for a long time.
Love is a strong feeling between two people. It’s a spiritual connection that can change how you see things, how you relate to others, and how you understand life.
What to do:
If you’ve known each other for a while, ask him what he meant. You might be surprised by what guys say when you ask them “why” and “what.”
Embrace Your Vibe
You might have seen more than ten relationships fall apart, even your parents’ relationship.
In the end, they all realized they still loved each other, but they couldn’t keep up the same excitement and energy they had at the start.
No matter what kind of relationship you have, keeping a strong connection and energy is really important for it to grow.
Lots of things, like what you like, what you believe, and your own energy, affect how we feel about the energy in a relationship.
And it’s up to you to decide what it all means!
